It’s an old saying, but what does it really mean? Why would I want my enemies around? Wouldn’t I be more comfortable with friends, a supportive family, and loved ones? While that does sound nice and cozy and safe, it’s not the place I want to be all the time.
Why is this happening? Why are men just not saying ‘I was wrong, I’m sorry, I’m not ready, I don’t want to do this’? How did a man become so weak and scared, that he would be willing to put his comfort over that of another human?
I lived like no one else, so I could live like no one else. How I got out of debt and saved up $20,000.
I was having sex for validation and acceptance. Of all the sex I’ve had, there are very few times that I was doing it for love and bonding (the real reasons for having sex).
I dated a narcissist and I didn’t even know it because I thought that word was really overused. Until I met Scotty.
Before I came to realize there is a Higher Power and it is not my father, not my step-father, not my brother, my mother or my ex-boyfriend, I felt unheard, angry and reactive